Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is a common sexual dysfunction in our society. If this problem is not treated properly, it may be a source of other problems, such as a lack of erection in men and sexual reluctance, and sexual aversion in women. Treatment focuses on the training of ejaculation reflex. For this purpose, appropriate exercises are taught according to the quantity and quality of premature ejaculation and the client is asked to apply these exercises with his / her partner. The application results are evaluated at the next meeting.

The problem of premature ejaculation medication, spray, condoms etc. it is useless to try to solve them. Only that relationship will help to save the situation. But it does not solve the source of the problem. The source of the problem continues to exist at the bottom. In some places, we come across medicines that are offered for sale on the internet, which are suggested to be a miracle solution for premature ejaculation. They are extremely misleading and unhealthy and are offered to people for the purpose of commercial gain. However, we know that there is a scientific fact that premature ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction that starts in the brain and needs to be resolved in the brain. You can temporarily prolong your relationship using such drugs, sprays, but as you cannot solve the problem, it is very difficult to know the harm and side effects these drugs cause.

Masturbation and pornography culture, which are frequent and hasty during youth, have a great role in this problem. Since we have no choice as to have a healthy and regular sexuality from the early years of life, masturbation is a method that men use very frequently. In masturbation, the brain is completely conditioned to the end of the ejaculation. The aim in masturbation is not to focus on the process, but to focus on the outcome. The brain that focuses on the result for years cannot focus on the process in a real sexual intercourse, and ejaculation occurs before the woman. Unsatisfied and unsatisfied in the relationship, the woman is increasingly avoiding sexuality with her partner. Some women also have humiliating, critical and judgmental reactions to men. This kind of reactions, as well as the man's sexuality, man's feelings of failure and incompetence, and all these negative emotions are reflected in many aspects of the relationship. The couple who cannot satisfy each other in their sexual life, begin to speak less and less and share less. This leads to many different problems occurring in the relationship, and the couple are beginning to think about ending their relationship by not getting out of the network of increasingly complex problems.

Treatment in Premature Ejaculation

Treatment focuses on the training of ejaculation reflex. It is recommended to participate in the treatment process in pairs. A solution-oriented treatment and exercise program is determined by analyzing the couple's sexual life, sexual intercourse frequency and other related or unrelated problems related to their relationship. Some men who experience premature ejaculation often demand an exercise program that they can perform on their own from the internet or online. It is quite difficult to explain that such a program cannot be done without face-to-face interviews and without analyzing a lot of information in detail.

Some of the information that should be known are:

1. The male's age, profession, stress factors,
2. Male sexual experiences (first sexual intercourse, sexual life in the ongoing process, etc.)
3. Male diabetes, blood pressure problem and so on. whether there is a physiological disorder,
4. The point of view of sexuality and whether the male believes in sexual myths,
5. The quality of the sexual education the man receives from his family,
6. The quality and quantity of sexuality the man lives with his / her partner,
7. The nature of the reactions of the partner when the male ejaculates,
8. The sexual harmony between the man and his partner.

After analyzing a lot of information, the most appropriate exercise program is determined and the first application covers a period of about 3 weeks. The results of the application are discussed together in the second interview after the double exercise program has succeeded in applying the recommended level and manner. If they fail to implement the program adequately, the resistances that impede the application are studied. During the 3-week program the couple is prohibited from having sex. There are some basic benefits of this ban. It is extremely important for the continuity of the treatment that the couple does not disturb this ban. In the second interview, if the couple succeeded in implementing the program in the recommended direction, the ban on sexual intercourse is removed and the methods of sexual intercourse are studied. Manner's control of the excitement during the relationship and methods related to systematic desensitization are taught. How to get involved, what position they will enter etc. many topics are analyzed. If the couple is connected to the program and they continue to implement the program as recommended, the problem of premature ejaculation is eliminated within a period of about 2-3 months. Some men are hasty