It is much more difficult for women to have an orgasm than for men. However, many women pretend to have an orgasm in order to think that their man is enjoying it during sex and not to break it. Actually, this is tricking a man so as not to hurt him. A woman who acts in this way does not really enjoy sex as time goes by and after a while she doesn't want her partner. Why do women pretend to orgasm? Let's see what the experts say about it.
Dr Ece Hattat, Member of the Board of the Family Health Research Association, underlines that imitation of orgasms reduces both sexual satisfaction and relationship quality in the long term: Sexuality can only meet the needs of the partner and begin to act as a task. This leads to more and more reluctance and relationship problems. Son The latest research conducted by the Family Health Research Association on the Internet shows why women pretend to orgasm.
Dr. According to the information provided by Hattat, 34% of the 1100 women who participated in the study think that if their orgasm is an orgasm, their partner will end the sexual relationship satisfactorily and happily and that this situation will affect the relationship positively; therefore he imitates. 28% are afraid to tell their partner about their sexual expectations. He may think, ers If I tell my wife what I want, he will misjudge me.% 38% believe that a man will always understand his needs naturally. We even call it fortune telling. However, a man may not automatically understand why his partner likes instinctively. When the woman tells the man that she is enjoying and having an orgasm by imitation, she gets a wrong return about her male partner's sexual needs.
What should women do to have an orgasm?
Dr Hattat sums up the golden rules of having an orgasm: “Orgasm is that sexual arousal and pleasure continue to reach a climax. Changes in the female body during orgasm, secreted hormones, psychological and emotional satisfaction, affect both the sexuality and the feelings and thoughts of the partner and the relationship. The woman who completes sexuality happily and satisfactorily develops positive feelings towards sexuality, which is an important motivation for later sexual intercourse. ”
Dr Ece Hattat explains that the physiology of female orgasms is more complex than that of men:
“The orgasm in women depends on psychological, social and emotional factors as well as organic factors. Hormones, vascular system, nervous system need to work well. It is important that the feelings in the sexual area are good and that the muscle structure works correctly. Measurements of these sensations and muscle structure can now be made. Due to an underlying cause (eg diabetes, thyroid problems, labor, menopause) or due to a drug used, problems in this mechanism can affect orgasm. Psychologically, a woman's sexual knowledge level, how much exposure to urban legends, life responsibilities such as child-family-work, how much she likes her body can affect factors such as having an orgasm. Factors such as woman's feelings about her partner, relationship quality, love-respect level and sincerity affect women's sexuality. The routine of sexual intercourse is also an important criterion. The quality and duration of foreplay, the spouse's approach to women, and how comfortable she feels with her partner in sexuality are important. Ideas such as “I will definitely not be able to have an orgasm“, or My wife gets bored while waiting for me to have an orgasm yarat create negative conditions and make the possibility of orgasm difficult. Im My wife doesn't show emotional affinity ”“ She only cares when she wants sex ”“ If she said something romantic in my ear ”iyor She only loves me if I'm good in bed”. Orum I don't feel anything ”“ I'm never warned ”“ I think I'll never reach orgasm ”“ When will it end? Im ım I'm hurting ”düşün thoughts increase the existing sexual problems even more. it is important how comfortable a woman feels in sexuality with her partner. Ideas such as “I will definitely not be able to have an orgasm“, or My wife gets bored while waiting for me to have an orgasm yarat create negative conditions and make the possibility of orgasm difficult. Im My wife doesn't show emotional affinity ”“ She only cares when she wants sex ”“ If she said something romantic in my ear ”iyor She only loves me if I'm good in bed”. Orum I don't feel anything ”“ I'm never warned ”“ I think I'll never reach orgasm ”“ When will it end? Im ım I'm hurting ”düşün thoughts increase the existing sexual problems even more. it is important how comfortable a woman feels in sexuality with her partner. Ideas such as “I will definitely not be able to have an orgasm“, or My wife gets bored while waiting for me to have an orgasm yarat create negative conditions and make the possibility of orgasm difficult. Im My wife doesn't show emotional affinity ”“ She only cares when she wants sex ”“ If she said something romantic in my ear ”iyor She only loves me if I'm good in bed”. Orum I don't feel anything ”“ I'm never warned ”“ I think I'll never reach orgasm ”“ When will it end? Im ım I'm hurting ”düşün thoughts increase the existing sexual problems even more. Im My wife doesn't show emotional affinity ”“ She only cares when she wants sex ”“ If she said something romantic in my ear ”iyor She only loves me if I'm good in bed”. Orum I don't feel anything ”“ I'm never warned ”“ I think I'll never reach orgasm ”“ When will it end? Im ım I'm hurting ”düşün thoughts increase the existing sexual problems even more. Im My wife doesn't show emotional affinity ”“ She only cares when she wants sex ”“ If she said something romantic in my ear ”iyor She only loves me if I'm good in bed”. Orum I don't feel anything ”“ I'm not warned at all ”“ I think I'll never reach orgasm ”
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